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Engagement Rings FAQ
General Information
What is the difference between a wedding ring and an engagement ring?
When someone proposes, they usually present an engagement ring that signifies a pledge of marriage. It typically includes a central gemstone such as a diamond. On the other hand, a wedding ring is what you exchange at the wedding ceremony, and usually, it will be a simpler band that complements your engagement ring.
Is a promise ring the same as an engagement ring?
A promise ring is not the same as an engagement ring. A promise ring symbolizes commitment or promise between two people, often given in the early stages of a relationship. An engagement ring signifies a proposal and a formal commitment to marriage.
Do men wear engagement rings?
Engagement rings are traditionally worn by women while men wear wedding bands. However, this can vary depending on the couple's taste and style.
What is the three-month rule for engagement rings?
The three-month rule suggests that one should spend three months' salary on an engagement ring. This guideline originated from marketing campaigns but is now seen as a flexible suggestion rather than a strict rule. The focus should be on what is financially comfortable for you.
Styles and Customization
What are some engagement ring types?
The most popular styles of engagement rings are Solitaire, Halo, Three-Stone, Pave, and Vintage. Unlike the solitaire ring, which has a single central gemstone, a halo design has a ring of smaller stones surrounding the center gem. Three-stone rings feature three stones representing the past, present, and future. This also includes pave rings with tiny stones set all around the band, and vintage-style rings that take their design from earlier eras.
Can I build a custom engagement ring at Monisha?
Yes! At Monisha Melwani Jewelry, you can build a custom engagement ring. From the setting and metal to the gemstone and design details, you can choose these specifics to create a unique ring that tells your love story.
Do engagement rings have to feature a main diamond or gemstone?
Engagement rings do not have to feature a central diamond or colored gemstone. While diamonds are classic, many choose different gemstones such as emerald, sapphire, or ruby as the main stone, or opt for no central stone at all. It's entirely a personal decision.
What are the different diamond shapes available for engagement rings?
Diamonds for engagement rings come in various shapes, including round, princess, oval, cushion, emerald, marquise, pear, radiant, asscher, and heart. Each shape offers a unique style and can affect the overall appearance and sparkle of the ring.
Practical Considerations
How much to spend on an engagement ring?
The amount that should be spent on an engagement ring varies, based on factors like personal finances and preferences. A general guideline is to spend about two to three months' salary, but the right amount is whatever you feel comfortable setting aside.
How many carats should an engagement ring be?
There is no set rule for how many carats an engagement ring should be. The carat weight depends on personal preference, budget, and the design of the ring. Some prefer larger stones, while others opt for smaller, more intricate designs.
How do I find the right ring size?
To find the proper ring size, visit a jeweler for an accurate measurement or use a ring sizer at home. If the ring is a surprise, you can borrow one of the recipient's rings to measure or ask family members and close friends for help.
How do you insure an engagement ring?
To insure an engagement ring, you can either add it as a rider to your homeowner's or renter's insurance or purchase a separate jewelry insurance policy. You'll need an appraisal to determine the ring's value and should review the policy details for coverage against loss, theft, and damage.
Can you return an engagement ring?
Every piece is made to order and we therefore cannot accept returns or refunds. Please reach out to your bridal consultant if you have additional questions.
Are lab-grown diamonds suitable for engagement rings?
Yes, lab-grown diamonds are a good option for engagement rings. They are physically, chemically, and optically identical to natural diamonds but are often more affordable and considered an ethical choice due to their sustainable production methods. At Monisha Melwani, we offer lab-grown diamond engagement rings to fit every style.
What is the average diamond size for an engagement ring?
The average diamond size for an engagement ring in the United States is around 1 to 1.2 carats. However, this varies widely depending on personal preference, budget, and cultural factors.
Care, Usage, and Traditions
How to clean an engagement ring?
To clean your engagement ring, soak it in warm soapy water for approximately 20-30 minutes. Gently brush the ring with a soft toothbrush to remove accumulated dust and oils, then rinse in warm water and pat dry with a soft cloth. Professional services for deep cleaning are also recommended.
What finger does an engagement ring go on?
In most cultures, the fourth finger on the left hand is where a woman typically wears an engagement ring. This custom follows the belief that this finger has a vein that connects directly to the heart.
How should you wear your engagement ring and wedding band?
Traditionally, the wedding band is worn closest to the heart, on the inside, followed by the engagement ring. Some choose to wear the engagement ring on the right hand during the ceremony and switch it back afterward, while others may solder the two rings together.
Should you wear your engagement ring on your wedding day?
It is up to personal preference. Some choose to wear their engagement ring on the right hand during the ceremony to keep the left hand free for the wedding band, while others leave it on the left hand and switch the order later.